When embarking on the RV lifestyle, the shift from a house full of items to a streamlined space on wheels can be both liberating and daunting. Many new RVers face the challenge of deciding what to keep and what to let go. Here, we explore not only what we downsized but also reflect on what we genuinely missed after making the transition.


Before the Big Move: The Downsizing Decisions

1. Furniture: From Spacious to Space-Saving

What We Kept: Collapsible and multi-functional furniture that could be adapted to our RV’s limited space. What We Missed: The comfort of our old couch and the spaciousness of a full dining set, which made family meals more comfortable and homely.

2. Kitchen Gadgets: Essential vs. Excessive

What We Kept: Compact appliances like a mini food processor and a versatile Instant Pot. What We Missed: Our full-sized oven and diverse range of kitchen tools that made gourmet cooking easier.

3. Wardrobe: Seasonal to Sensible

What We Kept: Clothes that were versatile, durable, and suitable for layering. What We Missed: Our extensive wardrobe options, especially seasonal items like heavy coats and formal wear for special occasions.


Adjusting to the Change: What We Learned

Living in an RV teaches you about the essentials, but it also highlights the comforts of stationary life that are taken for granted. Here’s what we learned from what we missed:

1. The Emotional Impact of Objects

Certain items, like a favorite bookshelf or a handmade quilt, carried emotional weight that was felt more profoundly once they were gone. Their absence taught us about the sentimental value embedded in the most mundane objects.

2. The Convenience of Conventional Living

Everyday conveniences like a dishwasher or a washer and dryer set were sorely missed, especially during long trips away from standard amenities.

3. The Need for Personal Space

Downsizing significantly reduced personal space, which we felt during times of stress or when needing a moment alone. This was particularly challenging during extended periods of inclement weather when outdoor escapes weren’t possible.


Would We Downsize Again?

Yes, but with adjustments. The freedom and joy of living on the road outweigh the discomforts. However, we would prioritize space for a few more comfort items and perhaps choose an RV with better storage solutions or a more efficient layout.

Key Takeaways for Future RVers:

  • Evaluate What’s Essential: Really think about what you use daily and what can be replaced with smaller or more efficient alternatives.

  • Consider Emotional Value: Keep a few cherished items; the comfort they provide is worth the space they occupy.

  • Plan for Adjustments: Be prepared to adapt your choices as you learn what you truly need and miss.


Embracing the RV lifestyle means both physical and emotional adjustments. It's about finding that sweet spot between mobility and comfort, and sometimes, it's about learning what you can live without, and what you simply can’t.